WTH?

So yesterday he calls to check in. He talks to me rather perfunctory. Level tone of voice.....sounds kind of tired. He asks to speak to the kids. He asks who is beside me. None of the kids are beside me.....I'll get them.....

I cover the phone and call the 5 yr old. I suspect he thought I put the phone down....

I hear sexy laughter and a woman giggling......hehehehehe habibi!!! (and perhaps she slaps his hand...its that sort of laughter)

He starts laughing and yells.....BAS YA BINT!!!

.....And I'm holding the phone......I feel sick. (morbid) I ask him...WHAT"S THAT ALL ABOUT?

He says....nothing. I ask.....is that ur wife laughing? He says.....yes, she's right here. So I say.....Give her my salaams and then hang up the phone. Unplugging it from the wall.

WTH? WTH? WTH?

What does he think he's doing? Does that make him happy? This from the man who called me at 3 am to tell me "he loves me". Isn't it just SO obvious pplz? Manipulating bastard. Where is the Islam in this? How can this be considered part of my deen to accept this sort of thing?

I just think that the religion of Islam is tooo beautiful to be likened to a marriage like mine.