The Possibilities.......
Have I ever examined them? The Possibilities? I wonder if I really considered them a part of my life. I sure do now.
As I went to the embassy to finally.....FINALLY.....pick up the baby's paperwork........I felt free. I finally feel like I have choices and then suddenly.....BAM!.....I found out about The Possibilities.
Why didn't I look before? Perhaps I needed to introduce some change into my life......pull my head out of the sand........and look around. How is it that we start to define ourselves by our man? How is it that we wrap our self worth up into them? Definitely not healthy.
So here I am........looking..........
And everywhere I look....something is jumping out at me........like the sign I walked passed on my way to get the baby's stuff......it said....CHANGE.
Yes....I do need to find some. LOL! All day little things happened that brightened my outlook. A supportive text message from my dearest, bestest friend. And yet another text message from my cheese grits best friend! And then yet another text from someone else I've come to love. So many reaching out to me........May Allah reward them.......
And now the time is close at hand for me to check out The Possibilities........and you know what? They've NEVER looked so good......
posted by Safa at 4:00 AM
15 Comments:
Alhumdullilah!
5:34 AM
AMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEN, Yes SISTA!!!! That is what I like to hear!!! Make you happy, and true happiness lies with obedience to the CREATOR!!! It's all been a test like I have said before, I can feel you starting to pass it! You have got sooooo much to be grateful for. A home, food, healthy children, most of all YOU ARE MUSLIM!!!! I wanna tell you something real quick, yesterday I found out one of my friends has terminal cancer. She is too weak to even pick up the phone, 6 months ago she was lively and didn't even know. So I started thinking, how grateful I am to be healthy and if I knew I was gonna die in a few months how would I live. We as Muslims know the hadeeth "live as though you don't expect to see the evening etc.," Be happy, worship Allah, most of all remind yourself that "your husband" is JUST A MAN-HUMAN!! He's nothing more, and look at him as your ticket to Jannah!!
thinking of you often,
Suhaylah
6:50 AM
as salamu alikum Safa,
May Allah reward you for all of your patience thus far. I hope that nothing but khair comes out of all of this for you and your children, Rabbina ma'aki.
7:04 AM
as salamu alikum Safa,
May Allah reward you for all of your patience thus far. I hope that nothing but khair comes out of all of this for you and your children, Rabbina ma'aki.
7:04 AM
THe possibilites are endless... and the time is now. Inshallah!
7:22 AM
Alhamdulillah. It can only get better, insha'Allh!
love, sayang
8:24 AM
That's great, really great !
8:52 AM
Alhumdulillah.
Check your email dearest. And inshAllah let me know if you need me. :)
8:57 AM
yeah safa! you deserve sweetness in your life - a stable home environment, appreciation of your wonderfulness, and a place to raise your kids where they see you getting the support and love that is your right.... and this from whatever corner it may come, if it's family, friends, OR a spouse. we're with you whichever way you turn safa, and asking that Allah open the way for you and guide you towards what is Khayr for you and your kids.
9:51 AM
Subanalllah sister that is really inspiring! Maybe we need to see the dark to appreciate the light.
9:55 AM
You sound so positive. Happy like almost. Im glad for you. May Allah guide you in making the right and best decisions for you, the girls and the baby. Do whats best for them and you... and not for him. Take your time, and be prepared. InshAllah Allah will help you through this.
11:59 AM
Every dark cloud has a silver lining... hehehe..
12:21 PM
assalamu aleikum wa rahamtulahi wa barakatuhu,
I second Sobia's alhamdulillah!
Send my salams to your cheese grits friend. Insha'Allah she's doing well.
12:29 PM
Alhamdulillaah.
YIPEEE YIPPEEEEE YAH YAH!
Shine, girl. You so need to shine...
7:17 PM
isn't it great to be loved? :)
You're doing just fine...insha Allah in a few months you'll have come to know that what you felt today was the usual...rather than the exception.
Alhamdulillah...isn't Allah merciful? Just keep walking towards Him...
7:05 AM
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