Monday, April 23, 2007

Getting it together.....

Went to the new OB/GYN again last night. Good news, insha Allah. After measuring the baby very thoroughly....it turns out that he's a good size and weighs about 7 lbs. Which is good. My first two babies were just over 7 lbs.

So she's of the opinion....that if I can manage to keep my sugars under control this week....if I exercise a lot....that just maybe, we can go for a natural delivery. If I didn't go into labour on my own this week....she'll consider inducing me. NOW THAT'S GOOD NEWS! Alhamdulillah.

Either way....I'll only be carrying the baby to 38 weeks. Which is on Sunday, insha Allah. So I'm almost done! YAY! But MAN....I don't know how I'm going to push myself to walk......it's so strenuous.....I've got this beach ball in front of me that weighs a ton....I gotta arch my back when I walk....I can't stand up easily.....my feet are swollen to proportions unreal.....and I just HURT all over. SIGH! I gotta make myself walk....I do....I do....I do!!!

And I have to watch my sugars. And actually...they've been quite good. But for some reason....when I woke up this morning...I tested and it was 250!!! ????? What happened? That's the first time for that to happen! Usually in the morning it's around 110. So I took my needle.....and made myself a HUGE tuna salad for breakfast.

But I'm still hungry. OMG....I wanna eat a Mega Mushroom sandwich from Hardees! PLEASE? ANYONE? Sigh! So okay....I put extreme effort this week....eat rabbit food...walk around a lot....and take care of me. JOY!

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Washing machine worries are finally over.....(haha...knock wood anyone?)..... They came and fixed it all up.....and the machine hardly makes noise now....great! So I've began my washing marathon! Gotta finish up the Rocky Mountains of laundry....insha Allah....I'll get it done.

I have the baby clothes that I'm dying to wash up first....but so far, I've managed to hold off. I wanna wash up those clothes and enjoy it, u know? So I'll hold out until I get the bulk of the other stuff done.....!!!!

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A special thanks to Sobia, Cherie and Angelz for throwing me a virtual baby shower over in the Sobia Forums.....it was so special....I love all the pics u guys drew.......and the warm words. You all are very kind!

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It seems that yesterday was my last time driving the car. It's dangerous for me to drive. My stomach is on the steering wheel....my feet barely reach the petals......and backing up is SOOO difficult. So I've decided to give it up. And anyways....I'm supposed to walk, right? So there.....bye bye car.....see you later!

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I've got some organizing stuff to do before Hubby makes it here. Gotta love organization. I got the maid coming this week....every other day to help me with it. I just don't have the energy to get things done. Next week the maid is coming every day......she's been a real sweetheart and is a fast worker......I can't wait till I actually live in the villa.....well...should I make it there!!

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And what about me? Well.....I'm on plan. Will not be swayed. And you know what happened yesterday? At the DR's office they have this magazine and there is this section, sort of like...Dear Abby. Someone wrote in a question about her husband marrying his secretary at work...and how heartbroken she is.....I was sitting there reading it.....and I was trying not to cry. I could feel her pain....the title of the article was..."huwa Kharab baytee"....meaning....he's destroying my home. SIGH. And then I get home....Mohammed Hassan is doing a question and answer period.....a woman calls in, asking why would her husband want to marry another wife, when she does everything for him, keeps a perfect house, the children...u name it....why should a man consider it? And again, I said....THIS ISSUE IS FOLLOWING ME TODAY! HAHA! But sure.....it sure helps me put myself in perspective when I realize that I'm not the only one......

Solutions for me are peeking out from the corner....can't wait to make it there....wish I could drive...walking sucks!

7 Comments:

Blogger Simply Eva said...

Salam Safa: I check your blog daily for updates. I absolutely LOVE your blog--been reading it for forever. Your past few posts with the funny stories had me literally laughing out loud until tears ran--your bil is a riot--so is ur niece. Anyway I just wanted to say I think you are a wonderful and amazing woman--and I pray for all good things to come your way in this life and the next. You truly deserve the best! You have the patience of a saint and are so even tempered, masha Allah. I wish all goes well with the delivery and you dont take too long a break from blogging. Hugs to you!

4:57 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Congratulations and good luck for the baby's birth.

I was unable to attend your virtual shower yesterday, but my warmest wishes are always with you.

You will sail through these last couple of weeks, with ease. You are on the right track for taking care of yourself. Safa, soft, strong, mentor, friend, mom and seeker... you deserve all happiness.

Love always,
Sadiyah

6:15 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Asalamlayakom Saintly Safa,

NOT!

LOL, I just can't annoint you for sainthood quite yet.

I don't want you to aim for either end of the spectrum: bitch or saint.

Be Safa :) Safa in moderation :)

8:33 AM

 
Blogger Susan said...

Walk away! I've heard that walking helps to speed up the delivery date...that and spicy foods! Maybe the exercise will help your poor swollen feet...

8:40 AM

 
Blogger PM said...

Salaam Alaikum Sister,

Wow! Hard to imagine that Abdurahmaan is almost here! Sweetie, now is the time to lay around and order everybody around -- that is when you are not walking ;-)))

Yes, the P thing is everywhere and as long as there are women that are willing to participate. It's up to each of us to decide if we are one of them.

Love you,
PM

11:41 AM

 
Blogger Safa said...

Assalaamu alaikum....

Happy you enjoyed Eva....believe me, it was funnier when it happened....LOL....

Thanks Sadiyah for the great wishes....and guess what? It's only a week!!!

HA....I think Safa in Moderation is a great idea. Usually I have my insane moments alone....and I think all the horrible things....and I soon as I get my head screwed on again...I go back to the S I M. Thanks for keeping by my side!

Cairogal....I wish I could pay someone to walk for me! But I did it....walked today....excellent...got a contraction in the street too...HAHA!

PM: ALMOST IS RIGHT! YAY! I'm doing excellent on the orders....didnt know I had it in me. But pulling hard on the ..."I'M 9 MOS PREGNANT, OK??" I gotta use it for all its worth...cuz it doesn't last long...LOL!!

P is everywhere....sigh.....decision time is blowing in with the wind.....

Love to you all....

1:25 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hmm...does me good to see al this good news...you sound so much more upbeat compared to the past few weeks, Alhamdulillah!

Know what, i can't wait for the first few pictures of Abdur Rahman to be put here so we can all love him...he's got a lot of 'khalto's , that one has!!

A week means you're gonna be off for a few...The best of luck to you sweet heart, for the birth. May you have a safe delivery and may little AR be all that you dreamt and more!

Muah!

Love,
Cherie.

8:23 AM

 

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