He has had his share of tests, since he's been wayward.....

Look at this peoples.....this is what has been going on with Hubby, since the text message of last July 2005. Now remember, he had just divorced the cdn woman in May 2005....

July 2005: text message arrives
-I start freaking out about it
-the woman talks to me and tells me she's gonna back off
-he promises me, wallahi he would never marry behind my back
Aug 2005: the sickness
-hubby gets a strange rash on his shoulders that I notice after he comes outta the shower
-it spreads down his back and arms, we go to the DR and they give us cream
-the rash changes in appearance, becomes like little blood blisters under the skin all over his body, he starts getting a fever
-we bring him to another DR, he almosts faints in the office
-admitted to hospital.....stays there for 23 days.....they have no idea what is wrong with him, a virus they call it, but name it? They have no idea. Everyday he seems to be between life and death, the fever is gaining hold on his body
-the day before they want to let us take him home.....although he's very weak......he suffers a minor stroke, right in front of my eyes, rushed to another hospital...they want to keep him, he just wants to go home.
-he starts dragging his feet, he can't walk.....he flies in 2 days
-even tho I beg him to stay, he has to go back....I cry watching him walk down the stairs...he looks like an old man
Sept 2005: recovery
-in Canada they put him in the hospital again, but they also have no idea what hubby was suffering from, they did every imaginable poke and prod around
-the Moroccan Magic and her hubby come and help my hubby when he's alone
Oct 2005: back to Egypt
-he comes back after a month so that we can see he's okay
-he tells me not to worry about Morrocan Magic, it's over
-he stays a month till Nov 28th
Nov 2005: the craziness
-a close friend of hubby approaches us about being partners in a new location for our business. He'll put up half the money, but will do all the managing of it. Ideal to us....we will be, silent partners....we agree
-hubby is super busy, trying to get the new store opened....running around EVERYWHERE
-he's like a madman right up until his last day...Nov 28th...barely can catch his breath
-he goes back to Canada, and find the woman has a surprise for him
-she immediately calls him and tells him her ex hubby went to Montreal.....and that when he comes back, he plans to walk into hubby's work and tell everyone that they are commiting adultery. She pushes and prys.....and on Dec 2nd....just three days later, he marries her
Dec 2005: next
-he marries her,
-ex hubby comes back and FLIPS OUT.....
-ex hubby goes to hubbies work and does the adultery thing anyways.....goes to the masjids, u name it
-ex hubby calls me,
-i call hubby and start FLIPPING OUT
-my hubby's work gives him papers that they want him out
-at work they start being nasty
Jan 2005: my turn
-Hubby comes to see me at the end of Jan....he's been married 6 weeks and comes to Egypt for 6 weeks
-his family is in an uproar, immediate and his own brothers
-the day he arrives, our store gets robbed of $10,000 LE worth of merchandise
-I spend sooo much time crying and hurting.....nothing is helping
-his first time to go to the new store, we aren't there even 10 mins and the electricity pops....we blew something big and it takes us 3 days to get the lights back on.....they take a wire from the telephone poles outside in the meantime
-they get caught about the telephone pole....my hubby gets a letter from the egyptian gov't....they put a $60,000 LE fine for it.
-he's running after bigshots in the Egyptian gov't trying to get the fine reduced....not getting much of anywhere
-his new partner asks for his money back....he doesn't want to be IN anymore
-we are stuck with a new store, no manager...what to do?
-he gets the fine reduced to $1,000 LE.....amazing
-his kids are all mad at him, he makes promises, breaks them, and we basically just get to observe
Feb 2006, he leaves
-we got nowhere and he leaves
-we can't talk to each other on the phone, he starts calling and yelling at me
-hangs up on me, doesn't call for a week at a time....
-his work in Canada are taking him to court, they are following him afterhours, and one of the women there is trying to get hubby in any kind of trouble.....
-that same woman starts calling me, lying about who she is......telling me half truths and lies
-he's having problems with Morrocan Magic
March 2006: chaos
-everything in Canada is in chaos
-now his only brother beside him there has stood against him
April 2006:
-I start asking when he's gonna come back, putting pressure
-His work is making Hubby's life unbearable
-we have to close down one of our businesses, but manage to reopen it in a month
-I start getting COLD with hubby
May 2006:
-more of the same
-i have to go see the inlaws, and they all gang up on me, telling me horrible things.....gets me down again
-hubby tells me that Moroccan Magic moved back into her own place.....but they aren't divorced
June 2006: He comes back
-but he finds only the shell of me
-I do all my duties towards him, but cannot pretend to be happy
-I am so sad and scared of more lies....I think that I just want him to keep his promises......but he's forgotten which makes it worse for me
-this visit was hell, I yelled and swore at him one night......I cried in front of his whole family....and they all ganged up on him.
-my heart was being torn in half
July 2006: he leaves
-We are all relieved. It was getting very difficult with him around
-exams for the kids...we get the results, my 14 yr old, failed two subjects. She's been so affected by everything, she couldn't concentrate when she was studying. the whole family told hubby that he's ruining everything he touches
Aug 2006: surprise phone call
-hubby asks what if we come to Canada as a visit
-tells me not to think about Morrocan Magic
-we get the tickets...but can't fly
-yet another thing that doesn't work out for hubby.....

SubhanALLAH....I can't believe I went thru all that....alhamdulillah.....I can't believe that he's gone thru all that! Subhan ALLAH....

I keep telling him, that once he finishes in Canada, I promise to make his life easy in Egypt......that I'll wake him up for Fajr, and he can go pray it in the mosque, and that I'll take care of him, that I'll never make any troubles in the house...just come home....please come home.

Insha ALLAH, insha ALLAH......

But I felt that I should write that so that you also see that this hasn't gone smoothly on his end. He's being tested with his family, his sustenance, his ventures, thievery, his brothers, u name it......subhanALLAH!