Hubba hubba dance!
The moment he leaves the house,
we exhale.
How is it that a man can hurt his kids to the point where they all don't want him around? They all say that the faults in his character became apparent when he got married.
Sometimes I wish he wasn't around either. But I have patience.....loads and loads of it. Alhamdulillah.
And whatever Allah has planned for me....I AM WILLING. Even if it means I step outta the picture.
Sometimes we all need to dance a little hubba hubba........
posted by Safa at 4:07 AM
5 Comments:
Well Missy - I can certainly relate - I do a little dance of joy when my hubby leaves the country. Really need some time to make a decision about things - I really want to get off this merry go round - although do hate to admit that I made a mistake - but I am coming to the conclusion that I have made one and a big one at that. Such is life. Now the decisions - do I stay, do I go, do I live there, live here, or live here and there???? OMG my head is just spinning at high speed.
10:05 AM
That's sad. I remember feeling that way about my dad some days. Alhamdullilah for your sabr Safa.
1:34 PM
Salaams Safa:
May Allah (swt) increase your patience and your reward/Ameen.
Inallaha mas sabreen.
7:24 PM
"May Allah (swt) increase your patience and your reward/Ameen"
I'm sorry, I don't think so. Look at Mona's comment. This isn't just about patience so you'll get a reward after you are dead. You are a mother and as such you have a responsibility to those children. What will God have to say about the legacy that you pass on to your children and then your grandchildren?
I'm sorry, but the thought of your children being happy that they can exhale now that Daddy is gone because his attitude changed after he started cheating on his family just really disgusts me.
Yeah, I know, you don't want to hear it but it isn't all about you once you give birth. You cannot tell me that you are staying for your children if they can't wait for him to leave so they can breath.
3:17 PM
Since I'm a new reader, I feel I shouldn't comment as it's a personal issue. Actually,m darn it- I will comment:-)
If you've worked at the marriage & there are still problems, & you are putting in all the effort, then it's worth letting go.
I lived in Egypt last year. One of my flatmates was Portuguese. This year she married a Pakistani living in Saudi Arabia. She's his second wife. Sadly, just three months into the marriage, she was terribly unhappy & thinking of leaving. My other flatmates & I told her to leave.
Btw, I love your blog template-it's so pretty. And I'm enjoying reading your blog
1:44 PM
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