Curiousity isn't really healthy....

Do we agree on that? So kill me for looking at his cellphone. Sigh. Or maybe I should exhibit some self control where it's concerned........

*he's calling her every day
*she's calling him back
*she has a habit of sending two text messages about 2 hours after talking to him
*she's been sending text messages daily around 3 am
*he's deleting the messages

But this AM he forgot. There were two......

"If you don't want to answer me then why did you tell me to buy a card and call you back? Am I bothering you that much? If you only knew the state of agitation I am in...."

"I won't bother you too much. But when I told you I am sick....thanks for not calling and checking on me. Perhaps you are worried that you'll have to answer me....Thanks"

And then he has 13 missed calls from her. SubhanAllah.

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How does this affect me? Well.....I don't let it. I'm sad for MM. It's like hubby is peeling her off really slowly......and that's not fair. OH! You know what he told me today? He went to a class in the mosque and he was telling me that the Shaykh said....

"if you do something halal and it brings you towards haraam......then it turns the halal into haram for you...."

You get it? So if your husband marries another wife.....(halal).....and now he can't be fair between you both.....it turns that marriage into haram.

I was going to explain my take on what the shaykh said......but I don't fight anymore. No fighting, no crying and no begging. Just me being me. I'm good.

And I don't need a man to explain that to me.

(and in some deep part of my being, I wish MM would call me. That for once she'd reach out for help.......I wonder what I'd tell her? Could I seriously advise her without letting my nafs get in the way?)

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We had company for these last 3 days. I've been so busy cooking! For our thursday night guests, I cooked.....

Biryani, tandoori chicken, raita, basmati rice and chapati. YUM!!!

Fri night guests?

Pizza, hamburgers, cheese bites, fried hotdogs in a blanket and cucumber salad

Sat night guests?

Spaghetti and meat. Salad. Soup.

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So much cooking, so much laughter with all the kids......so much fun! I did the pizza with my oldest and the oldest niece......we laughed so much that my daughter fell on the ground in the kitchen and the niece peed herself.....LOL!!!!!

I did my little bits here and there to make the kids happy. Thats what counts. Hubby was upset cuz I made the pizza.......he thought we should make meat instead. In the long run it both cost the same.......and the pizza went over soooo well with the kids......

I don't blame him for thinking that way tho......if you were raised in Egypt, you'd understand.....sigh.

BUT DID WE EVER HAVE FUN!!! Alhamdulillah. Now if I could only get out of the house.....I'm going shack whacky. It's been a long time since I've gone out........it's starting to get to me.....HELP!!!!!