Tuesday, January 16, 2007

Finding diamonds.....

Let me tell you about the cutest little boy I've ever had the pleasure of meeting. SubhanAllah, his name is not on my lips, but the memory of the lesson that I learned from him still exists. Let me call him Abdul Hayy. He was in Senior Kindergarten, that would make him, what? 5 yrs old? 5 yrs old and he had this strong perserverance that only children have. Day after day, he'd be the first one running out of the school at recess, full of exuberance, energy and bursting with happiness that would make adults smile. And day after day, he'd be the last one inside, dragging his feet at his regular failure, yet the brightness in his eyes never dimmed. Tomorrow I'll try again...he'd say, walking inside......and no one questioned him, no one wondered what was his daily goal. What was it?

Well, since I was working in this school in the administration, I had regular interaction with many of the children. I learned to love these kids....and many of them touched my heart. But this boy...masha Allah! It so happened that one of our teachers was ill for a week. Someone had to take over her duties and since I was the only one who had the free time, I volunteered to do them. Among her duties, was being a supervisor at recess. So started my interaction with Abdul Hayy. I noticed his exuberance and his sadness daily. I'd see him running around the playground digging holes in different areas of the playground, playing by himself. No friends by his side, and him just talking alone, digging with a frenzy. I started walking over to where he'd be digging and would catch pieces of his conversation with his imaginary friend. It went something like this....
"I know there are diamonds in this playground.....I'm sure of it.....and I'm going to find them and everyone will be so proud of me....I'm going to give my Mama a diamond and maybe I'll sell some.....I wonder how much diamonds are worth? I hope it's more than $100. This sand is too dry, there won't be diamonds over here, maybe I should move somewhere else?........" And so on and so on.

After a few days of listening in, I realized what he was doing. Digging for diamonds. What a sweet boy! He had dreams of making his Mom happy, buying his Dad a new car, and somewhere deep inside, he believed that those diamonds, HAD TO BE THERE. If he just kept trying, he would eventually get them. He really believed....and tried and tried again. After a little thinking....I decided that Abdul Hayy DESERVED to find his diamonds and had a plan.

So I went home that night and looked thru my garage sale jewellery....I found this old brooch with lots of rhinestones, many missing......and got myself some tools, even a hammer! LOL! I broke up the brooch and got myself about 10 small diamonds and about 5 good size ones. I put them in a plastic bag and the next day when I went to school, I snuck out and buried them. I marked my spot with a stick, and then continued on with the rest of my plan.

Come recess, I approached Abdul Hayy and asked him how his diamond hunt was going? He was so pleased, he looked at me excitedly and said..."Today is a really good day! I can feel it....I'm going to find DIAMONDS!" So I said to him...."let me tell you a secret.....you have to start everything with Bismillah....and then you look for a stick on the sand....many pirates mark their treasures with sticks.....once you find it, you say bismillah and start digging....dig slow.....the treasure will wait...." He smiled and ran yelling..." WOOOHOOOO!!!"

I walked around nervously as he ran to a different stick.....I was hoping / praying that he'd go to the right one.....and finally.....he did.....he lifted the stick and said...."Bismillah".....and started digging with methodical strokes, taking his time....and then suddenly....."ALLAHU AKBAR! I FOUND THEM!!! I KNEW IT!! MY DIAMONDS! I"M RICH, I"M RICH!!!! ALLAHU AKBAR!" He filled his hands with his find, and started running to the other kids showing them, the teachers...and finally me....who he hugged with joy and exclaimed...."You helped me today, so I'm going to give you one." He touched my heart with that, because I had heard him saying again and again, how he was going to give his Mama a diamond....he had put me on the same level with his dear mother. And knowing that I was supposed to be ecstatically happy, I said thru teared eyes...."Oh Masha Allah, Abdul Hayy!! You are so generous, I'm so happy...r u sure? What a great surprise!" He ran away before I could say much more.....which was good, because by that time, the tears were pouring down my face.

He was so excited that his teacher couldn't calm him down until finally she let him stand up in class and tell about how he KNEW there were diamonds in the playground.....he told the adventure with such enthusiasm, the kids sat entranced listening to him. Needless to say, recess wasn't the same for a good week....with most of the senior KG class bringing plastic shovels and pails....LOL....parent's calling and asking about the diamonds....LOL!!

So what's my moral on this? It's that sometimes we have to remember that by trying hard, working away daily at something that doesn't prove fruitful....we still have to keep chipping away at the foundations...remain steadfast.....and insha Allah, we'll find our rewards. Isn't that a great lesson to learn? It sure is.....remember that Allah said...."Patiently, then perservere: for the promise of Allah is true: and ask forgiveness for thy fault and celebrate the praises of Thy Lord in the evening and in the morning" 40:55

Oh such innocent joy! I prayed that day that Allah would make Abdul Hayy always victorious with his strong perserverent spirit. I loved that little boy...I really did. He found his diamonds.

22 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

that is such a beautiful story. it was sweet of you to do that for him. i'm sure he thinks of you often.

11:24 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Asalamalaykom Safa,

Wasn't that a Beatles song?

SAFA IN THE PLAYGROUND WTH DIAMNONDS

Girl, you are gorgeous. You have the most gorgeous spirit! You send little boys to find pirate treasure with 'Bismallah'. You are the best. And the whole time you're telling the story, I know you're wanting us to see what a great little boy Abdul was. The whole time I'm seeing what a great woman YOU are.

You are still that woman. You are still great. Don't forget to connect that truth with who you are now. Someone has broken your broach and taken your 'diamonds' to hide them. Do you see the stick? Say, "Bismallah" and dig for the precious gems. Wisdoms are gems too. As you dig, remember your wisdom. You are the pirate!

11:47 PM

 
Blogger jilbabble said...

subhan allah! i am crying just imagiining this little boy!!

12:33 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

That is so cute!

4:01 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You have a head start...a wonderful centre diamond that is priceless surrounded by four/soon to be five rare diamonds. Safa the World is your Oyster, you are free to create as Allah wishes.
Love Suzy xx

5:44 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

assalamu aleikum wa Rahamtulahi wa barakatuhu,

I really loved this story. So touching. I also volunteer with kids and you learn the best stuff with them!

But it almost breaks my heart that he spent all those hours playing by himself. What if he hadn't found anything? Would he be bitter? It was really nice of you to do that. Either way, he experienced what Allah had in store for him.

That was really cute of you. Masha'Allah.

6:23 AM

 
Blogger polygamy lover said...

Masha allah Safa.What a beautiful story with a lovely moral.I try to remember this when I'm feeling very unappreciated or like I'm being taken for granted.I try and remember to say Bismillah before I do anything that I am feeling won't be appreciated, usually gets overlooked or before I do something that won't show immediate results but I have faith,insha Allah, I will see the results later.

6:24 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

assalam alaikum, sweet story, but imagine when the poor boy found out that his diamonds where fake and he couldn't buy anything for his parents.

9:07 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Salaam Safa, Masha-Allah what a sweet story!

9:36 AM

 
Blogger Safa said...

if his parent's were anything like me...they would have bought those diamonds off him. LOLOL!!!

10:02 AM

 
Blogger Ash said...

That is so sweet!

3:28 PM

 
Blogger maggie said...

This is precious. Thank you for sharing this with us.

May Allah also bless you with a sweet boy like this with a huge faith!

4:34 PM

 
Blogger NiqaabiQueen said...

Subhan-Allah! Wonderful story with an even more wonderful moral. May Allah reward you and yours, AAMEEN.

6:48 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

masha'Allah. i have tears in my eyes reading that story. That was so sweet of you, i have to say, to plan it all and hide the diamonds in the sand and then tell him to say 'bismillah'. uff. That whole story just moves me so much. Beautiful.

By the way, this is the first time i am commenting on your blog. You have a beautiful, generous heart.

7:45 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

As salaamu alaykum waramatullahi wabarakatuh, sis! Masha'Allah, sis, that story was so lovely, tears were streaming down my own face, especially with the ayat at the end, for surely reminders benefit the believers, masha'Allah!

Hmmm, I have such a soft spot in my heart when it comes to children, so this story will be on my mind for some time now, insha'Allah.

8:53 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Safa, your story made me cry...of course, happy tears! Mashallah, what a sweet person you are. I liked the little boy, but I liked you better. :)

4:22 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Were they real diamonds? Will you come bury some diamonds in the flower pot I will buy and put dirt in???? I could really use some of those right now.....

8:45 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

As Salaamu Alaikum,

Masha'Allah, this story really touched my heart!

3:12 PM

 
Blogger Jannah said...

La ilah ella Allah...

Your heart is diamond itself to do such a lovely thing for the little hopeful persistent boy!

Tearful story Safa!

2:08 PM

 
Blogger bint alshamsa said...

Safa,

You know how to make a person cry, don't you. I think I'm going to print out this story and show it to my husband.

1:18 AM

 
Blogger Mumina said...

Asalaam alaikum Safa, I know u wrote this long ago (I am here reading through the rest of your entire blog!!!) but I thought this was sooooo sweet, a lovely story, and what you did for this little boy was beautiful!!!

11:37 AM

 
Blogger Mumina said...

Asalaam alaikum Safa, I know u wrote this long ago (I am here reading through the rest of your entire blog!!!) but I thought this was sooooo sweet, a lovely story, and what you did for this little boy was beautiful!!!

11:37 AM

 

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