"Get used to it or get off the blogosphere."

Kafira said...
When you people put yourself out on the internet, do you really expect that everyone who reads you will only stroke you by the hairs? From her own husband Safa has accepted to be told to Fuck off, and this is one of the minor things she has accepted by this man, but when Musulmana or myself vehemently disagree with your public postings and find that your actions are everything from silly to outright dumb and use the bloggercomment option to voice this you are upset to a ridiculous degree. If you wan`t nothing but candyspeach and du3a`s I suggest ya all make a yahoo-group where you can kiss eachothers asses in a locked forum. On the free internet you will encounter people who will actually strongly word themselves in an opposing manor. Get used to it or get off the blogosphere.

Over at PM`s world I am not allowed to be myself, a Kafira. She is such a coward that she closes her eyes to quranic teachings. So here goes again PM from FK:

You deleted my post, so I will post it again. You call yourself Peaceful Muslimah as this is your faith. According to your faith I am a Kafir. So I have total right to call myself Kafira. Muslimah is your identity, Kafira is mine. How can you be offended and refuse someone to use the words of the quran to describe themselves?

When you read the quran,do you close your eyes when the word kafir is mentioned?

But they who disbelieve (wa'llazina kafaru), and deny Our revelations, such are rightful Peoples of the Fire. They will abide therein (al-Baqarah 2:39).

9:12
Wa-in nakathoo aymanahum min baAAdi AAahdihim wataAAanoo fee deenikum faqatiloo a-immata alkufri innahum la aymana lahum laAAallahum yantahoona

09:023
Inna allatheena ishtarawoo alkufra bial-eemani lan yadurroo Allaha shay-an walahum AAathabun aleemun

003:177
Inna allatheena ishtarawoo alkufra bial-eemani lan yadurroo Allaha shay-an walahum AAathabun aleemun

Your banning me from calling me what the qurans states I am tells me you are ashamed of some of the content of the quran. I also posed the question, how would you feel if my kafira-site denied people to use nicks with the word muslm in them. Deleting was your answer. Coward!

PK
Fighting Kafira

Writing to Safa earlier I said that she had stayed in Egypt due to monetary reasons, something wich she vehemently denied. In her QA-post she admits that this is acutally the case:

Safa: " Financial....he gives me lots of money in Egypt. A lot. At the same time, he yells at me for it. He has told me that he's going to cut it down. He has bought me a villa, a mansion in all aspects, and it has been sitting for a year, needing renovations and we can't move in. I've got a full time maid and live in gardener already there, waiting to serve me. In egypt, I drive a mercedes. It's nice, but I'd give it all up to have a full time husband."

Now she is tottering back to this most likely because the living-conditions he can provide in Canada are not even close to what he can in Egypt and she has her co-wife in her face in Canada. I don`t even know why I am bothing to write this, but I was irritated on Musulmana`s behalf. She has voiced her opinion, it makes ya all feel uncomfortable with the choices you make, wich we point out are stupid to us, a muslim and a Kafir, looking in from the outside, then you put on your islamic garb and chastise her for her very sound opinon wich you openend up for when you started blogging. Makes you feel good and holy na, "Honorary". You are perfect muslimahs. There is no community or people in the world who are more active in hitting the delete button when someone opposes you and make you feel uncomfortable. Hide under the rug what bothers you, flee from your problems, lay down in du3a and cry cry away.

I think ya all suffer from fathercomplexes and want to be mommied on the internet by those who will only advice you as you please. But thanks to all of you for blogging out your sad lives, everytime you fall flat on your faces I and my friends get a good laugh.

Not so kind regards as she predicts a deleted post to pop up here later.
Fighting Kafira

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Is this supposed to be responded to???

I don't think that "Us people" are on the internet to only have our feathers stroked. From many of the people who were encouraging me to take difficult steps, to others who just wanted me to do what I wanted to do, to maybe a couple who wanted me to stick with it. I chose the least favourite option. I chose it for ME. Not for you, or anyone else. I taste it, and see if it works with me. My whole reason for having a BLOG is not about having my feathers stroked, rather its about VARIETY. I love it. I love hearing opinions from others points of view. I like to feel like I have a 3-D image of everything and see it from everyones eyes. Many of my commentators are in my same situation, or they are just damn smart, maybe they are great writers, or maybe they come into my BLOG, looking for a fight to stroke their already inflated ego. (speaking generally, of course, don't think I mean you, Kafira....)

I wonder where you read that my hubby told me to Fuck off?? Rather, he told me to Go to Hell. But I suppose that Fuck off sounds better to you, does it? I agree they are both shades of grey.......but I am offended just by you typing it on my BLOG.

We already have a Yahoo-Ass kissing forum, too bad u didn't think about it first tho. Sorry, you aren't invited. I already polled all my commentators and everyone agrees, they wouldn't want to kiss ur dirty Kafira ass. And what's this about strong wording? Do you get a rush when you be so vulgar? I hope you target jewish Blogs and other members who actually have a faith.

Why are you so pissed cause PM deleted ur post? It's her damn BLOG. She can do what she wants....did you urself not say..."Get used to it or get off the blogosphere." ??????? So what's ur problem? You can say what you want, but we can't decide whether or not we wanna keep it? Double standards? Or are you just talking rings around urself and ur inflated pride? Here's my advice to you on this issue, "Get used to it or get off the blogosphere."

Call urself Kafira if you'd like....call urself whatever you want, I don't mind.....it's your SN.....I saw someone on BLOGSPOT named Shithead.....I mean, hey....its ur choice. (sorry, that name is taken, so if you choose to change urs, maybe you can try turd)

I don't even wanna read ur Quranic proofs. Puh-lease. As if I am going to go to a Kafira to learn my religion. Why would I choose to drink from sullied water when the pure stuff is so easily available?? Drink ur own brew my dear.....nobody is drinking it here.

Ashamed? Another PUH-LEASE. Coward? Ha. So many of my commentators are braver than you'll ever be. Heck, I'm braver.......but that's not something u'd understand if you don't believe in anything except urself. How could you like anyone? No one could ever be good enough for you. In my opinion, by your style of writing and argumentive nature, your GOOD writing actually, my guess is you have some sort of facial disfigurement and can only voice your anger in a "visually-free" safe environment. Thank Allah for internet......or maybe you'd say...."thank Me".

Lay down in dua's and cry cry away?

A level of piety you'll never attain.

"I think ya all suffer from fathercomplexes and want to be mommied on the internet by those who will only advice you as you please. But thanks to all of you for blogging out your sad lives, everytime you fall flat on your faces I and my friends get a good laugh."

Oh thank you such Wise Person, though you choose to call urself Kafira.........here's another piece of advice about us wanting to be mommied,
"Get used to it or get off the blogosphere."

If ur right in what u think, then all the more power to you. Thing is, with blogging we have the choice what we want to do. And that's just what we do. Enjoy your laugh, u and ur friends....may I remind all my muslim sisters that Allah says in the Quran,
Surah 83:34
"But on this day (of judgement) the Believers will laugh at the Unbelievers."

Wait for it.

In the meantime, Kafira......u've been deleted, and came back....had ur say, even tho most of us are just rolling our eyes....I ain't gonna delete you. Sorry to fudge up ur prediction, I'm just gonna ask you to have a final say in MY comment box, and then just quietly disappear. I just don't find u productive. Irritating, is more like it.

Oh and BTW, there are surgerys that can be performed that disguise cleft lips. Look it up.

oh ya, and have a nice day.