call back...
He finally called me today. Asked me some Q's about Cleo.....and then he said..."I'm giving you until Friday to move back into the Region"
WHAT?
That threw me for a shock! So I ask him to explain and then he says....on my custody papers, it states that I am not to move out of the Peel/Halton region. (yeah, I know it says that....and I've moved WAY out of there)
So I said to him....Look. There's no way that can be done. I've signed a lease for a year and I work here in Barrie. So I can't be coming back to Mississauga any time soon, and I don't want to be there either. If you want to start something about it, you can, but I'll tell you something.....it'll just set off a war of you aren't doing this or this is wrong and blah blah blah.... In the long run, what are you going to get out of this? All it will be is a waste of time with an end result that isn't going to make anyone happy. And besides....you aren't in the country half the time anyways.....so why does it matter to you?
He answers me and says, I'm always around for my children.
(*snort.....I so could have dived for that, but you know what? It would never end......so I passed up that little prize....)
He said a bit of gibberish.....and then he asked to speak to the kids.....
They are calling him back though.....we just got back from the beach.....oh such joy the ex brings.....
List of things to do
-go to the courthouse and find out how to change the region or apply to change it....
posted by Safa at 12:55 PM
11 Comments:
JUST found out that my 15 yr old is NOT going to egypt....but that she's registering for high school in Hamilton......
1:48 PM
why is she not going to Egypt? Doesn't he have money to pay her ticket? suspicious...
I am so glad my court papers allow me to move...I can take my daughter everywhere I want, but my ex would need a court permission to do it...I hope you manage to change the papers, otherwise you can be in trouble...
3:13 PM
I think this would be an easy win for you Safa. All you have to do is show the record from how you lived in Egypt all those years while he was shacking up with his whore in Canada, that fucking loser! You haven't moved THAT far away and I can't see the court supporting him. If they do, it is worth hiring a great women's advocate lawyer who will go after him for polygyny and affairs, not supporting the kids, not to mention the emotional abuse that led to you taking the kids to Canada.
If you need help with a lawyer, let us know. It's not a good time financially for me but I can try to help in another month or so.
Love you always,
Lisa
4:18 PM
Salam Safa,
This would be a great opportunity to see if you can get legal advice from some legal aid clinic (like the YMCA ones).
I think it'd be easy to show that YOU are the one basically supporting your family and that it's more convenient to move for you jobwise, that wherever you live now is cheaper, etc, etc. And you really need to try to get your daughter to do a deposition so you have prove that he was plotting to kidnap the children. I spoke to my husband (aka lawyer) and he told me that at least here in Quebec he could be charged either with solicitation (i.e. he's soliciting the assistance of your daughter to commit a crime) or with conspiracy. Laws in Ontario might be different, but I thought I should let you know.
Get an emergency custody order ASAP and get a sympathetic lawyer on board that can follow your case and help you out.
7:27 PM
Now all of a sudden he cares about the kids? Sheeshhh He didnt care if the kids had even the essentials a few months back, and now he "is always around for his children"? What a load of crap, anything to get to you and make you upset. Its a game men like to play, kinda like a cat with a mouse, he is all in to you when you are strong and moving, but as soon as you give in/give up, he cant be bothered.
6:04 AM
Again..NO surprise. I've known people just as evil as ur ex, more evil in fact. What always amazes me is they alwaysssssss seem to have the guts to start trouble. It would seem to me that this PIG (insult to pigs everywhere I know, sorry) would keep his dirty mouth shut and not try to start up some sh$t but this is the way his kind is. Anyway, I agree with PM...i sure wish u could get a bang up lawyer and make his life a living hell. I'll kick in something...just let me know if u decide to go for it! Love ya Safa!
6:26 AM
does he have any legal custodial rights since he doesn't pay financial support?
4:32 PM
I was wondering the same thing as Alice. If he isn't paying child support does he still have any sort of custody? also was it him that couldn't move out of the area or you? If it was you then there could be trouble.
You need a lawyer as mentioned above that is a women's advocate for the d-bag to be shut down!
5:07 AM
I dont know abt Canada, but unfortunately now in the USA a man has rights to visitation--even custody--if he's NOT paying child support. I miss the good old days when a woman could voluntarily decline child support so her husband had no rights. I know it sucked if the man was a good father, but when he was a sh$t it was great for the ex wife and her kids not having to deal with his crap. Safa...maybe it's time to go to the media again. Maybe a follow-up to your first press interviews is in order!!!! An update of sorts to let all those who appreciated your first interview to know you are still being royally screwed. Think abt it girl!
5:53 AM
GREAT idea Simply Eva!! He's an a$$!
11:27 PM
I think it is especially important to let the world know that not only did this jerk get away with not having to pay child support, but that he also wants to prevent Safa from working in a better area to make life easier for the kids he wont take responsibility for. I think it would be interesting if the word got out that this guy can afford to fly back and forth between Egypt and Canada, can buy expensive presents for his choice of kids, and is paying for fertility treatments for MM. (Do I understand she had an abortion at some point???) Also, does he still have the villa and the business(es) in Egypt??? Give me directions Safa...I will be glad to go and take pics!!!
12:12 AM
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