She's leaving today....
My 15 yr old is leaving with her father shortly. Going to live with him and give him a chance. Although I know she really needs to go, its hurting me. At first I just decided to pretend she is only going for a vacation, but now my heart has figured it out and tears keep escaping.
posted by Safa at 1:30 PM
6 Comments:
im so so sorry sharon. your sadness is just palpable. i would be so sad if one of my children had left but God will make it easier for you as the time passes. i pray she comes home.
2:29 PM
forgive me Safa, but the 15 yr old is living in a fool's paradise. She's only 15 and truly has no clue. it's good of you to allow her this experiment. sometimes the only way to learn the truth about someone is to go live with them. when the rose colored glasses come off--and he hurts her good, only then will she understand. experience truly IS the BEST teacher!
1:45 AM
Eva is right. I hope she does realize how her father really is and realize that she needs to come home.
Sending you lots of hugs. Love ya!
7:21 AM
You know Eva.....what you've said is the only reason I find myself able to let her go. It's the only way that she can pass this bump and move on. I'd rather her do it now....and get it over with......or who knows? Maybe she'll find something with him that she's missing in her life.
But then I remember how last summer she was going for a visit and she called me one day to say she is going to stay there. I agreed back then too....because I know how this daughter is. But she didn't follow thru with it......because after she agreed to stay....the ex changed up all the rules and game plans in the house. Almost as if making her leave. So we'll see what this time will do.
9:08 AM
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thanks and jazakallah khair
6:23 PM
Yes Safa I remember that first trial run. Well let's hope both of them get off this stupid merry-go-round before the kid is permanently damaged! Perhaps another good reason to look into court appointed visits? How can the child expect to feel secure and/or put down roots if he's tugging her along and then throwing her back. She's not a fish for god's sake. He is a devil!
6:23 AM
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