another court date....
I was at the court 45 mins early, so anxious was I. But it wasn't until 11 am that they finally called us in. There were many, many woman there......I wonder if they were all doing support cases as well. It sure seemed like it. I brought along a friend who recently had finished her own support case and it was a good choice. She steered me in the right direction when I didn't know what I should do.
When the ex finally arrived in the hallway, he walked in dressed nicely with MM walking about 2 steps behind him. (Everytime I saw them walking, she was always behind him) He didn't look my way but at one point, MM glanced at me and smiled....I waved at her. (I was laughing behind my eyes happy that it was HER walking with him and not me!)
When we finally go called in, there was some confusion on my part.....the person that I thought was my "lawyer" was in fact, only an assistant. So the ex's lawyer approached me and offered to represent me as well. "pardon me?" I asked....
So he says..."well look, its really an open and shut case, Mr H has no money and it's proven by the documents that he's brought, so if I can represent you, (but I can't advise you), then we can finish this right now.....you both sign papers and we are done"
Excuse me? No thanks, I said....I'll get a lawyer right now. And then he says to me..."well actually, I don't think it will make any difference, the court has lost your paperwork, there was some problem about it, so lets just move forward around this right now."
So I say to the lawyer...ïf they lost my paperwork, why is my name listed outside the courtroom?" To which he starts spouting more BS and I say to him, No thanks, I'm good.
Finally they find the right person I'm to talk to, and I say my piece.....so now the court case will be bumped to July 19th. (you should have seen the ex's face when they said the date....you know he wants to go back to Egypt!!)
I was very tempted to ask him, do you plan on seeing the kids any time soon? But didn't bother...just ignored him. Oh and did I mention how fine I looked? Black pants, black and white blouse, black shoes and my hair just right.
I'm not sure if July 19th can come fast enough!!


5 Comments:
your ex's lawyer is a complete jackass if you ask me. I am glad that it went well and you have another court date. I wish I was there to see the look on ur ex's face lol. I bet he was shocked that it went the way it did. I'm glad ur friend was able to go with you. I was thinking about you all day. :)
Do you think he is going to show up to the next court date?
I'm glad u were looking good! YEAH!!! You always look great!!!!!! :D
Love and Hugs!!!!
1:14 PM
Don't share lawyers! I did that when I divorced and it was the worst thing ever, I have spent so much money with a new lawyer to put right what the other did wrong. Make sure your new solicitor is good though...
1:17 PM
Salam Safa!
What kind of weird, unprincipled lawyer is that that he offers to represent both of you while clearly looking after your ex's interest?
It's too bad you don't have it in writing because those lies could cost him his bar.
Safa, I have a very good friend who's a lawyer in Toronto. He's a human rights lawyer but if you ever need to get a second opinion or something, I can ask him if he can get you some free consultation with a family law attorney. My friend gets very fired up about injustices so I'm sure he'll try his best.
All the best!
10:37 PM
So now you have to submit your paperwork all over again?
If everything is uncontested, you can share an attorney but not in your case.
So he has no $ to pay you, but he has $ to go to Egypt? What an asshat!
Anisah
10:25 AM
Oh God!!! And so the plot thickens...I seriously wish you find a way to lodge a formal complaint against your husband's d#$khead of a lawyer. He seriously needs to be disbarred! As for your ex claiming he has no $ to pay for HIS kids...I cant say anything because it would send me to hell--the horrible things I am thinking...BUT...let's just rest assured he has a LOT to answer for on the Day of Reckoning!!!
2:23 AM
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