....and it starts......
News just in......Hubby let it slide that he's going back to Canada.....for perhaps 20 days. He says that he'll buy a new ticket. He says that something is going on. At the same time, he hasn't received any calls from Canada recently.......but he has been calling MM.
Something is definately up.....
posted by Safa at 11:10 AM
23 Comments:
Alhumdiallah, that was quick...he's only stringing the sheik along...I was explaining to my kids last night how lying is a form of stealing far more destructive than just takin' people's stuff and that is why it is a sin...I'm sure you know.
Love and Salam,
~Brooke AKA Ummbadier
12:15 PM
Asalamlayakom Sucker Safa,
Look, you can either be a stupid sucker that falls for the jerks of the world...
or you can be a sweet sucker, like a lolli on a stick that everybody wants to enjoy.
Keep being YOU and let him be HIM. If he wants to be the jerk, let him.
I am disspointed in him to say the least.
Hey, Allah knows the deal. Leave it to Allah.
12:36 PM
well how can he get calls from canada if his phone is not working. maybe he says he is going canada, but really going to to see MM
1:07 PM
Why can't men understand that just being honest and open about what is going on from the beginning really is just so much easier for everyone!?!
1:08 PM
InshaAllah khayr :(
I do hope that he opens up to you and lets you in on what is going on. Nothing worse than being left in the dark!
Is the Alexandria trip still on?
May Allah give you strength.
**hugs**
1:17 PM
sounds like she's pulling the chain.........
2:30 PM
Are you kidding? ARGGGGGGGGG!
3:17 PM
I am very sorry. Its hard to get real change sometimes.
6:25 PM
:(((((((((((
12:08 AM
You know what, i'm gona give it to you in this comment! :-)
I can't beleive you! Yes its great yuv kept the peace and its good if you get the passport stuff taken care of. BUT you DO need to talk to him before he leaves. Don't keep expecting the guy to talk. Its not like his track record shows you he will come begging and talking to you.
You need to make that happen. Otherwise, its just going to be like silence between you two and he's gona leave and you may be left behind yet again.
DON'T TELL YOURSELF YUR GONA WAIT 20 DAYS. CUZ U KNOW WHAT, YOU SET THAT DATE TO ASK HIM FOR THE D LONG TIME AGO, AND LOOK WHERE YOU ARE NOW? DO YOU HAVE ANY ANSWERS YET?
4:13 AM
What reason did he give you for him going back? I guess that 6 month ticket was just to pacify you.
Sorry dear! Lots of hugs to you and your kids.
8:28 AM
I knew it was too good to be true....I'm sure you did too.
1:17 PM
I know I don't have to tell you not to let this guy string you along again... I understand your forgiving and patient nature with him. But is there a way that you can get him to do all the baby's birth certificate stuff and maybe even seriously bring up the divorce thing (if that is your ultimate goal) before he take soff again? I know things are slow in Egypt... But maybe at least get a BC for the baby even if you have to get creative with the reason that you need it to be done. Tell him about traveling in an emergency, maybe say that the fees for getting his Canadian papers will go up next month so you want to file them now... Anything.
You are in my dua, I pray that you will get what YOU want out of this situation. I pray that you won't have to settle for almost, that you will get just what your family needs from this situation.
9:18 AM
He shud tell u, what is that! Not "something"!!!:((((
man....!
11:45 AM
::hugg::
with duaas,
ur canadian sister
12:15 PM
Safa, don't let this be you!
Myra and Jereleigh Morton's 27-year marriage spiraled out of control this year after the former North Philadelphia handyman-turned-millionaire met a young Muslim woman from Morocco on the Internet and married her in concert with Muslim law that allows men to have multiple wives, Montgomery County prosecutors said yesterday.
At one point, as the couple's relationship deteriorated, Jereleigh told his American wife, "If you don't like polygamy, get a divorce," according to his Moroccan bride, Zahra Toural.
Instead, Myra allegedly fired two .40-caliber bullets from her husband's Glock semiautomatic handgun into his head early Sunday morning on the eve of his scheduled trip to Morocco, where Toural waited to give Morton the son he yearned for. She was ovulating, investigators were told.
For Myra, no longer able to bear children, the trip apparently was the final indignity.
She surrendered to authorities yesterday morning and was charged with her husband's murder, appearing in Montgomery County Common Pleas Court dressed in a flowing black abaya that revealed only her eyes and her hands.
Her lawyer, Brian J. McMonagle, called her a "decent and compassionate woman" who had been "a devoted wife and mother." He called the case a "tragedy."
Myra Morton, 47, had reluctantly given her consent in March to her husband's desire to take a second wife and had even attended the Muslim ceremony in Morocco. But arguments ensued and the following month, according to Risa Vetri Ferman, Montgomery County's first assistant district attorney, she sent the federal government a "poison pen letter" that suggested her husband was somehow involved with terrorists. It prompted the State Department to open an investigative file.
"She talks to him on [the] computer, on Yahoo everyday or by phone about bombings in Casablanca," the letter said, alleging that Morton's new wife was somehow linked to al-Qaeda. "I am afraid for my family sometime when she goes over there," it said.
Ferman said Myra Morton may also have worried that her husband would squander on his new wife the $6 million remaining from a $14 million malpractice claim the couple won after the death of their 13-year-old daughter in 2001. The couple moved from a rundown North Philadelphia rowhouse to a $1 million mansion in Whitpain Township in 2005 after receiving the settlement.
"Six million is an awfully large motive," Ferman said.
Jereleigh Morton met Toural in December through an online dating service, Qiran.com, that specializes in matching Muslim men and women.
By then, Myra Morton was noticing that her husband was paying less attention to her and spending more time on his computer, according to court documents.
In early 2007, Morton confided to a friend that she was "unhappy with her marriage," and that she had found her husband's computer password and learned he was "talking online to a girl from Morocco."
About that time she purchased a $2,200 "satellite tracking device" designed to be hidden in a car to secretly record its movement.
Myra Morton said her husband wanted to have a son, and that although she herself was unable to conceive, the other woman was "of childbearing years." Toural is 35.
Toural told police Myra Morton "was jealous of her." She said the American couple "fought both inside and outside the home and frequently screamed and argued."
At 1 Sunday morning, Myra and Jereleigh Morton arrived home after seeing a movie, The Bourne Ultimatum.
Myra Morton told police her husband soon went to bed and was asleep when she lay down next to him and fell asleep herself.
By her account, she was awakened by two gunshots and saw "a figure" running out the ground-floor bedroom's sliding door. Morton said she gave chase, screaming, "Somebody help me!"
The Mortons' daughter, Amina, and her husband, Harouna Sokhouna, said they did not wake up until Myra Morton ran into their bedroom, screaming, "Someone just shot Dad!" Sokhouna called police.
Jereleigh Morton had been killed by two bullets fired from his own Glock pistol. There was no indication he attempted to defend himself.
Police noted the blood spatter on the bed was not consistent with someone asleep next to the victim.
"Clearly, that is not something that could have happened," said Ferman. "She would have been soaked in blood as well."
Detectives could not find any signs of tampering or theft. Jewelry and about $6,000 in cash were found.
On Sunday in Morocco, Toural waited in vain for her husband to disembark from his scheduled flight.
Toural described her concern in a message posted on an NBC10 Web comment box Tuesday.
"i feel something is happened tryed to call him many often i called myra. . . . and i called his home phone no one answer me," she wrote.
3:14 PM
PS-i don't really think is going to be you, I just wanted to illustrate for your readers how deception can make a woman lose it!
3:14 PM
Ya know, I just don't get him... *sigh* Keeping you in my prayers and hope your daughter is feeling better.
2:07 AM
Ah Safa, I don't know what to say...I hope before he leaves he gives you some answers.
7:53 PM
safa i hope u r doing ok.its been a long time since u posted.is everything ok?
4:28 AM
cant wait to read more....
6:26 AM
Not more of this........:(
3:17 PM
Dear Sister safa,
I really admire your faith and your courage and your love for Allah. But don't you think safa you need to sit down alone, and analyze what you should do? What is the best for your children and their future? And most of all, what is best for you? If you are not even sleeping with your husband in same bed, he comes to you for only 20-30 days. Safa, don't write blog, don't listen to anyone. sit alone and sort out what you should do? you are an adult and so is he. Don't you think you should come out and say whatever is in your heart. Instead of writing in blog, don't you think you need to share your feelings to your husband so he knows what you wants, and what needs to be done, and how you feel. Please safa it's high time that you do something for yourself and your kids.
11:57 AM
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