Hey there..........
So this is where I am at right now....trying to build up some confidence...trying to look into the mirror and remember who I am...who I was. Wondering if I have the patience, the stamina to make it past this phase in my life. It's taking a lot longer than I expected and its a heck more lonely than I ever thought. Honestly...if it wasn't for this blog...I would have been in the looney bin by now.....the feedback here helps me immensely...even if I don't always listen!And right now? Well, its not always all good.....never, usually. The one thing I can say....is that my hubby called the sheikh and supposedly discussed everything with him. He wouldn't tell me what exactly the sheikh advised him.....but did say that he made lots of Dua for him. He also told me to call the sheikh and see what he has to say.......so I'll do that later today and let you all know.
posted by Safa at 10:01 PM
7 Comments:
i like that pic. as they say, u are as strong as u feel. safa all the best with the sheik. but i wouldnt worry too much if i were u. all things are in your favour here. the duration of your marriage. the kids u share togther, the fact that u expecting another child........if u think about it, which sheik could advise a hubby to leave his wife under those circumstances. i dont see it happening. if anything i hope the sheik has opened your hubbys eyes to the reality of what hes putting u through
dont get me wrong. i know this is not a contest between u and the 2nd wife. but from where im sitting, i think that the best advise the sheik could have given hubby is for hubby to either come back to egypt, or take u and the kids to canada. one of those 2.
i cant see him telling hubby to divorce either of u 2,cos that would be haraam.
its time that u and hubby were living in the same city n seeing each other on a more regular basis. this has gone on long enough
just my view on what i owuld say if i was the sheik..of coruse im no islamic scholar so i may be way off the mark here
n the part about not taking the advise...dont be too hard on yourself..its human nature not to take advise readily. im that way too
12:14 AM
Alhamdulillah he called, at least that's a start of some sort. I love this picture! InshaAllah the Sheik will have something positive to tell you.
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1:27 AM
Asalamalaykom Safa Habibti,
I'm up at 3:30 in the morning looking to see what's going on with you.
I read the words and feel the forward movement in your part of the world as well.
I see the picture and, at first, I thought, "Ahhh, Safa thinks of herself as a cute little kitty." After I read the post, I looked again. You're a lion! Roar, baby, ya! LOL! You have to imagine Austin Powers saying that.
1:41 AM
Umm I don't think that any of the readers of this blog realize that you and I both are in the same looney bin.....We use the same computer people...we are both crazy and blogging from a state sanctioned CRAZY HOUSE....hey Safa can I have your dessert tonite...I will give trade you a cigarette. Cigarettes are like money here I swear. Listen for real I need to talk to you, meet me in the closet under the stairs after dinner tonite, ok?
6:20 PM
Salaams
Whatever the outcome I really hope that it will work out for you...
Be strong either way and tell us how it goes...
5:56 AM
salamu alaykum,
You're a real lion! Hear ye roar!!
3:28 PM
Why do men always get to be in control of everything?????
All together now:
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!
I love you Safa. You are stronger than strong. Girl, if you could bottle that stuff, you could sell it and make a fortune.
Hugs and prayers for you:)
5:41 PM
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