To just live, live, live......
LOL@my little comment war here. That sure spiced things up a little. But I think it'll blow over....I've had one before....I think it's still getting the occasional comment......
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Guess what I found out yesterday.....the stupid mouse has a friend!! OMG! I could hear it behind the diningroom niche last night...sounds like he was munching popcorn there, and moved the whole thing so that I could get a look at it. I had to scrape the backscratcher around from the bottom....and sure enough he bolted! Another good size one....???? Holy heck! Not even 10 mins later, I hear the crunching popcorn, he was back under the niche again! I suppose he was doubling back! Never did catch the bugger...but when I do....I"M GONNA CUT OFF UR WEE TOES, BUDDY!!!
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Ok...I'm over the exhaustion I was experiencing...I think I slept an entire 12 hours straight. I could hardly keep my eyes open. I'm awake now peoples! Look out!!
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My hubby's family in Cairo is doing a huge family iftar.....first time in like 5 yrs....to hopefully clear the air and respark love in everyones heart. All are invited.....so I'm back to Cairo again on Weds. I won't be staying the entire night...gonna have my iftar, then stick around a bit....and leave after Isha prayer. Insha Allah things will be just fine, cuz we are going to be a big group.....the children alone number about 34. No kidding. Nobody is cooking, they are getting it catered. BBQ chicken and kufta, I understand. I'll prolly make an upside down pineapple cake....prolly a couple of them!
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Thats about it for my update.....I'm sorta vegging these days....so if I think up anything intelligent to say, I'll post it....LOL! Oh if that were only a prerequisite to some others commenting! LOLOLOLOL!!!!
posted by Safa at 11:34 PM
9 Comments:
Masha Allah that's one huge iftar! I hope it goes great, surely the girls will have fun, inshaAllah. Damn if I don't feel like I know you Safa! ;)
12:24 AM
haha....well u read my whole blog so you've got my life all memorized.....just missing the physical me.
12:38 AM
Asalamalaykom Safa,
We're on the 'net same time it seems ;)
Does the whole famn damily know about the new addition to your household? ...and I don't mean the popcorn-crunching mouse.
1:00 AM
In my household it's hard to keep secrets cuz we are a pretty tight knit little unit, me and my girls. I noticed a nibble outta my blood test results from the lab, so it seems like the mouse already has the lowdown.....the whole famn damily is blissfully unaware at the moment. I want to keep it that way as long as possible.....the BIL from Cda's wife is Algerian and has some mutual friends with MM....although her and MM aren't friends. It's known that Algerian says stuff to friends, who in turn tell MM. She's even been caught out badmouthing me...subhanAllah. So family shall be in the dark for the present....maybe I'll just surprise everyone in May?
2:52 AM
Safa, I’m speaking directly to you.
You only listen to a select few. Shouldn’t you have kept the news of your pregnancy within your select group? It is very sad that some of the commentators are not sending well wishes and evil eye is not a good thing. We don’t know you from ‘Jill’ and wouldn’t have ever found out about your pregnancy. Is fueling a comment war and increasing your counter hits more important than your unborn baby?
Your blog is a terrible example for women who wish to convert. You once did niqaab and now have your photos all over your blog. Don’t non-Mahram men see it? Are you sure they aren’t saving your photos on their computers? It is also very mean of you and everyone else to call your husband’s WIFE “MM.” What sort of Muslim are you? The “Christian hoochie” has a name and a Muslim CO-WIFE is called MM! If your husband slept with a hoochie what does that make him? You reward him by sleeping with him. You were Christian once, should Muslims have called you a hoochie then? What a horrible heart you have! Spit your lava on your promiscuous husband not his women. It only shows how immature and childish you are at 34. This is real life not a “tag” game you play with your girly friends. People on other blogs are now talking about your overconfidence in your non-existent intelligence.
You curse your husband’s legal wife. She may be an awful woman but how pious are you to curse her openly on your blog? Finally, you are as much this stupid man’s wife as the other woman. Your co-wife has as much right to get pregnant as you do. It is shameful that you did not want for a Muslim sister what you wanted for yourself.
May Allah bless your child.
3:57 AM
Ummmm...okay....am I supposed to justify myself? I don't remember ever mentioning if I ever "did" niqaab before.
How about asking why everyone refers to my anti wife as MM....its a double initial that stands for something....in part her nationality....I think you think we are all referring to her as MMMMMMMM. Which I am not. Everyone knows the christian hoochies name....and fellow christians would also call her a hoochie. Hubby slept with a hoochie in a halal environment, so I guess that makes him and Hoochie's Hubby.
Although I was christian I was never a hoochie.....I've only known my hubby. My hubby ain't promiscuous BTW, he's married the women he's slept with.....
I couldn't care less what people say on their own blogs....its their own right.....I could care less what even you say......it's people with comments like you that increase my counter hits....thanks for attracting me more attention.
Have I cursed my anti wife? Hmmmmm......I'll have to go back and check that. Ur right about it being my co-wifes right to get preggers.....and it's not up to me to stop her. If you think I have any ability in that department u are sorely mistaken.
The only thing that I take from your comments is possibly the fact that maybe I should ditch the photos......I'll think about it.
6:54 AM
Asalamalaykom Safa & Common Tator,
Common, if Safa isn't someone you value, then why bother your mind with her and her life? Just leave her be. Though you make some good points, such as the photos being removed, you sling mud at the same time. It makes you look dirty and sullied. Don't do that to yourself. Don't call names. Be the nicest Muslimah you can be and if you can nicely advise another Muslimah to do the same, then do so. Otherwise, if it angers you so much that you become mean and cruel in your comments, you do noone any good. You will have to answer to God for every word you have written.
Safa, I am concerned how much negativity this blog attracts in the comment section. You let everyone say their piece... however, lately it isn't their "peace". You don't put any limitations on what you will put up with. That's why there are comment section wars on your blog mnore than any other I read. You accept everything. Your supporters defend and your detractors counter and you wait for a while until you say anything. Is that wise? You don't often stop the commentators and tell them to back off in a nice but assertive way. How is reading all this smack going to affect you as hormones rage and belly gets bigger? I am concerned.
8:49 AM
Safa, you wrote a while ago that you were niqabi and are considering wearing it again. It was then I thought it is strange that you have your photos displayed on your blog. Everyone has their choice. You may look pretty to some and not to others. So, if you are pretty you should have your photos displayed on your blog? What are you trying to show us? You should know there are people (including some you don't like) who have your photos. There are people YOU have never seen before but who know what you, Areej, and your girls look like. Even what your cat looks like. Do you know for certain that I am a woman? I may not be a good Muslimah but I can be a good Muslim man - think about that. If I were a woman, men in my house may have seen your photos. I may have your photos and your girls and even other bloggers’ children’s. If I’m all screwed up I can create email chains with them. How else do you think people have these photos they keep spamming?
I'm not going to argue with others and raise your hits. I don’t want to ask anyone what you call your co-wife. This is your blog and I’m talking to you. Isn't calling someone "Moroccan Magic" = witch, cursing that person? Think about that too. This is what I was referring to – the Christian wife is known by her name, Crystal but the Muslim wife is called Moroccan Magic. Why? Because your husband loves her and has still not divorced her? You have the right to hurt and be angry but you should know where to aim it.
You are refusing to follow me. There is no need to come out with so much detail on a blog. We know who you are, where you live, what you look like, how you came to Islam. You are too obvious and it will only take a little while before someone you really don’t want finds your blog – like your husband.
9:29 AM
I'm not refusing to follow you......when you corner someone and sling mud at them, how can you expect less than them coming out fighting? Now this new comment has me thinking.....reconsidering.....
What's your deal? Why are you coming over here and playing the big sister to me? Are you just advising me? Or what is it? You just come on so strong.....
12:03 PM
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